41-----if it feels good, do it
　　
　　live according to your desires at the moment. forget about rules, regulations or consequences. just have fun.
　　
　　42-----live and let live
　　
　　do not be judgmental. do not try to control or punish other people.
　　
　　you live as you like and let others live as they like.
　　
　　43-----variety is the spice of life
　　
　　variety is what makes life pleasureable. boredom is seen as a threat and monotony is the surest route to boredom.
　　
　　44------money talks
　　
　　wealth has influence. people who make big contributions to political candidates are "talking" to the candidates and expecting them to listen.
　　
　　45-----all work and no play makes jack a dull boy
　　
　　this is used to criticize someone who takes work too seriously. it affirms that play is as an essential part of human life.
　　
　　46-----the more the merrier
　　
　　this is a way of welcoming someone to participate. it means, the bigger the group, the bigger the party.
　　
　ng you already have is worth twice as much as a thing you might get in the future.
　　
　　48-----you can't have your cake and eat it too
　　
　　make up your mind. sometimes one must choose between two very desirable things, giving up one thing in order to enjoy the other.
　　
　　49-----there is more than one way to skin a cat
　　
　　any of several methods may bring about the desired result. each person may choose the method that best suits her. if one method does not work, choose a different one and try again.
　　
　　50-----one man's meat is another man's poison
　　
　　since the same thing may affect different people in different ways, each person must choose the things that will work in his or her particular case.